We want to be enjoyed, NOT destroyed! There's a difference — Excuse me! Vaginas have feelings. For the sake of all women you’ve laid and are to lay in the future, you better get this cheat sheet so you don’t repeat the same mistake every Tom, dick, and Harry does. No, this is not an essay persuading you to give more…

Is online dating worth it… let see what science says. — Lately, I’ve been contemplating whether to try dating apps or go to my local bar to meet someone. I’ll have made my decision and hopefully, it can help you too. Dating sites like Match.com and OKCupid have been popular since the mid-1990s, while dating apps like Tinder and Bumble have…

A woman's desire for sexual fulfillment is important, it's about time men got the memo! — All of my girlfriends have had a sexual partner with either premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, or a failure to maintain an erection. Do you know what each of the men had in common? They all denied their condition. My friend, Mary*, had been single for some years before trying online…

Should you grab the lube and get to bumping and grinding…hell no! — Let me be the first to say I’m not a huge fan of lube. Sure, it may be my best friend when I reach menopause, but for now, I can’t stand it. I’m not too fond of its smell, the icky feeling it leaves behind when dry. Who likes smelling…

If you want great sex, it starts with you. — Sex is often oversimplified and misunderstood; it doesn’t have to be. From personal experience and what others have shared with me, the sexiest things you can don’t involve learning anything complicated, magical, or time-consuming. It most certainly doesn’t involve popping a pill, either. These strategies aren’t new but will help…

People pleasing is not sexy! It will wreck your sex life — I used to be a people pleaser, a do-gooder, if you will. Need someone to run your errands? I'm your girl. Oh, you got kicked out for not paying rent; that’s ooookay crash on my couch because, gawd, that landlord you had is just unreasonable. While I was busy pleasing…

#4. Thou Shalt Not Talk With Your Mouth Full — They say a penis has a mind of its own; it gets erect when it wants to. It most certainly ejaculates when it wants to. And it sure as hell won’t listen to you beg it to get up when you want to bang that hot chic… unless it wants…

Don't believe the hype, “Mandingo” isn't for everyone — Often, it is men who give each other hell about the size of their wiener. Women don’t care, as long as you hit it right, we’re good. If you try us, we will criticize your size just to hurt you, but that doesn’t mean we wouldn’t fuck you. Men on…

Men Just Haven’t Gotten the Memo Yet. — Women are as lustful as men. We want sex just as much, if not more. Shocker, right? Every time I say this, I’m met with a chorus of men whining about women not hitting them up for sex: cue, eye roll. Fellows, we want sex but not the sex you’re…