There is no way of knowing how long a relationship will last, but we can most certainly know whether it’s worthwhile or not. — With all the pink flags, red flags and breakup stories going around, — cough Amber heard cough Johnny Depp cough cough — it’s normal to wonder of your relationship. There is no way of knowing how long a relationship will last, but we can most certainly know whether it’s worthwhile…

It will save us all a lot of disappointment in the bedroom — I’m always baffled when I hear men describe sex with some women as “throwing a sausage down a hallway” or “fucking a bucket”. I know that they are trying to mean that their vaginas were so wide they couldn’t feel anything. If you’re a man who’s ever said anything close…

Who knew a single disaster could upend hookup culture — Despite the promise of sexual liberation, women almost always got the short end of the stick. Women have been through the wringer! When COVID-19 shook the world, hookup culture came crumbling down. Before the pandemic, sex was a side dish men expected to have during the “let’s see where things…

We make the choice to quit, months or even years before we decide to leave. — Most relationships never reach the altar and those that do end in divorce. Very few stand the test of time. For most of us, we’re stuck in endless cycles of situationships, flings, and hookups. One may argue that we aren’t built for monogamy and that we’re finally growing into our…

It’s time we face the monster within — Many have tried experimenting with sextoys and different positions. Some have tried supplements and boosters that promise to bring back the spark. Others have even tried going on vacation to spice things up. It all worked but for a short while. That’s because the problem isn’t that we’re not adventurous…

The devil is in the detail — Let me tell you a little secret, there is a big chance that your oral skills are basic. If you’re one of those who think having your mouth on his penis drives him nuts or having a tongue on her clit gives her fireworks, well, sorry to disappoint you, you’re…

Knowledge is power especially in the bedroom — I grew up in a community that chastised girls for having sex and celebrated boys for exploring their sexuality. Sex was a game where men were the predator and women the prey — someone had to win. But as we became teenagers with raging hormones, this game became more attractive…

Sometimes we can be our worst enemy! — In the 1960s, 72% of people were married. Today a whopping 63% of the growing population is single. As someone who’s been around many single men and women, I can tell very few are single by choice. Many of these single-by-choice people decided to remain single as a last resort. …

They say the tongue can only do so much… but can it really (wink, wink) — Some women would rather have their vulvas licked hard and greedily like a popsicle you can’t wait to devour. Others prefer being lapped slowly and delicately, like a savored ice cream cone. It’s really not complicated. As long as you’re enthusiastic and really into it, you can’t go wrong with…